Dr. Carson's mother was obviously a strong woman. Part of the decline in America is mother's don't take their job seriously. They expect others to instill values and character in their children instead of taking on the job with their husbands. Parents want Christian schools, churches, and I am even sure some expect it from public schools to instill values and character. It's OUR job as parents to teach these. Yes, wonderful if schools and churches come along side and assist us in the daunting task but at the end of the day the buck stops with us.
I got a VERY unexpected email the other day from an elder of mine that I have revered since I was little. He reminded me that "the hand that rocks the cradle rules the world" and encouraged me in the job that I am doing as a mother. Talk about encouragement! I was discouraged that day I got that email and it was a huge lift to my spirits. I can't depend on cheer leaders to continue on but it sure is nice to get that affirmation from an elder in Christ. As a mother I want the love of Christ to rule my children's hearts and then I want them to let that love shine to the world. I can't make them accept the values and beliefs I teach but I sure can disciple them in the way of Christ.
